Returning to your roots can bring unexpected clarity. In this episode, I’m joined by fashion stylist Toddre’ DaLaura Monier, who shares how reconnecting with the East African fashion scene brought her peace, purpose, and a deep sense of connection to her motherland. She opens up about how her lifelong bond with Africa blossomed into a creative entrepreneurial venture and a sense of cultural pride on the continent.
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Meet Toddre’ DaLaura Monier
- Toddre’ takes us through her fashion journey from Los Angeles to East Africa. With a background in African Studies and international human rights law, she has lived and worked across the continent before ultimately settling in Nairobi, Kenya.
- Her story weaves together experiences in fashion retail, community service, and returning “home” to the motherland.
Fashion as Healing & Creative Expression
- For Toddre’, fashion isn’t just style — it’s empowerment and mental wellness.
- She shares how personal style can become both armor and authenticity, blending cultural pride with confidence.
- We also explore upcycling, supporting local artisans, and how fashion can serve as a sacred form of self-expression.
The Nairobi Experience: Tours, Tailoring & Thriving
- Toddre’ invites us into Nairobi’s vibrant fashion world, where she curates personalized art and shopping tours.
- From Kenyan thrifting (“mtumba”) to markets like Toy and Gikomba, she highlights the unique energy of East African fashion and how it differs from West African style.
Advice for Aspiring Stylists & Travelers
- Toddre’s advice is refreshingly honest: not every passion has to be monetized. Instead, explore fashion as a creative outlet through upcycling and by supporting local designers.
- For those curious about international moves or long-term travel, she also shares her “Blaxit” consultations, offering guidance to those looking to transition abroad.
“Fashion isn’t for everyone. You can teach people the basics, but when it comes to having a stylistic flair, you either have it or you don’t. I don’t fault anyone who doesn’t, and I admire those who try. What matters to me is seeing that effort. At the end of the day, my goal is to give you a Nairobi experience like no other.” – Toddre’ DaLaura Monier.
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